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And just to clarify for people who see rlparker as a more familiar face around here, anyone is free to check out my contributions to the DreamHost wiki, my participation on the DreamHost forum, and I also welcome you to check out my personal web development blog, which contains many DreamHost articles, tips, and tricks you will probably find useful.
I have *no* intention of rehashing all of your "participation" on the DreamHost Wiki, or the Forums, yet again. Those of us that have been here a while have been through more than enough of that (the rehashing, that is), thank you very much.
Some of the most unpleasant and divisive threads in this forum, and *huge* amounts of "refactoring" on the wiki, have been the direct result of you "not getting" the social contract of "non-promotional linking" that has worked so well for years on both of these venues (or the DreamHost Anti-spam policy regarding linkspamming forums).
Your "cleaned-up" wiki user page is an improvement, and I'm glad to see it. Readers who are curious as to why I'm so sensitive to your "promotional linking" proclivity can *also* review your archived user talk page on the wiki - it speaks for itself, as does a review of your Forum history. I've been very pleased to see your recent forum activities have been of an increasingly helpful nature, but *still* you seem to be unable to do that without promoting your site - and that sours it for me.
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Rlparker, why you are seemingly taking such delight in my misfortune and attacking my character, and why you are so "thoroughly disgusted" by my opinion that linking to the DreamHost panel is OK is something I truly will never understand.
I take no delight at all in your "misfortune", even though you worked very hard to bring that "misfortune" on yourself in spite of my, and others, trying to dissuade you from doing that and warning you of the possible consequences.
In fact, I have commented favorably on your *recent* contributions in the wiki and have expressed my complete willingness to accept that you wanted to contribute in a "new" way. I have no problem with your "character", and I don't believe I have attacked your character. I am "thoroughly disgusted" with your complete inability to contribute without self-promotion. Even now, as this unpleasant discussion has the potential to rear it's ugly head *again*, you blatantly link to your own site in other than your sig.
You didn't understand the problem before, and it appears that you still don't. Even after you got spanked, first with the retraction of the DHSOTM award and then much later, after considerable contentious discussion, again with the loss of your rewards account, you *still* persist in using this forum (and even, to a lesser degree than before, the wiki) to link to your site. It may be more subtle than before, but it is *still* linkspam.
While your "rewards" are no longer at stake (as they have been revoked), Link "spamming" to promote your site is no more welcome here than spamming to earn rewards. I suggest that your recent linking in these forums is just as much "spamming" as before, without the obvious financial incentives of the rewards program.
Jeff made it clear in point five of his message to you revoking your rewards account that:
"5. Spamming forums - including our own - in order to lure prospective DreamHost customers to your site in order to obtain Rewards using thinly veiled promotional techniques."
It's at best disingenuous to think you don't see in that statement that "spamming forums" is prohibited simply because Jeff further clarified for you *one* of the prohibited purposes of the spam. Per the DreamHost Anti-Spam policy, linkspamming forums is clearly prohibited *whatever* the "purpose", and you know this, or should know this, as we have been over it at length (as your posting/wiki history reveals).
Hence, my comment that, in view of all that has passed, you just "don't get it".
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But I realize that everyone has their own unique personality, and I rest easy knowing that for everyone else, the facts speak for themselves. The world isn't flat, its just isn't, no matter how much you wish it were.
I'm glad you rest easy, and that you realize personalities are different. None of that, however, is relevant to why I feel the way I do about your linking practices.
I have not said a word in recent weeks as you have slowly, but surely, began to once again litter your forum posts / wiki contributions with links to your site, but when you *yet again* not only drag up your DHSOTM "win that wasn't", and link to your own site repeatedly, I decided to speak up. You should have taken your own advice earlier in the thread when you advised the OP, "My advice to you is drop it".
This was a post I told myself I wouldn't write, but you asked "why", so you deserve *one* answer (which is alway a risk when you ask a "loaded" question!) I consider the balance of your activities in these forums, and on the wiki, to be less "contributory" than "contentious" in nature.
I'm glad to see you help others; it's a shame you can't seem to do it without promoting yourself or your site. The facts *do* speak for themselves. I'm just disappointed that what genuinely looked like a "new leaf" turned out to be so short-lived.
--rlparker