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I need to find a new host for my forum. last 3 weeks their mysql servers are over loaded.
I only have like 4000 members in the forum but they can't keep up anymore I guess.
Anyone have a kinda large php forum running on DH with no problems???
It's not the total number of members, but how many are online at any one time, and what they're doing. If you have more than 75 online conistently, and regularly go over 100, you are probably outgrowing a shared environment.
There are other message board systems, such as MyBB, which is excellent, and vBulletin, a commercial product that's used by a large number of businesses. But I don't think they'd help that much with a busy board.
If that's the case, an intermediate step might be VPS, which incorporates the essence of dedicated in a smaller environment, at a lower price.
One host that does that is HostICan. I feel confident in talking about another place, because DreamHost offers nothing comparable.
Peace,
Gene Steinberg
Co-Host, The Paracast
http://www.theparacast.com