ya got me to thinking about the htaccess so i lookd. in the "forum" folder there is an htaccess. it looks like this.
RewriteEngine on
RewriteBase /forum/
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-f
RewriteRule (.+)\.php$ index.php?rb_v=$1&%{QUERY_STRING}
and the joomla htaccess is the standard one that comes with it. plus the add'd code for the stats folder. and this line that lets the wrapper work..
########## Begin - RokBridge - phpBB3 edition SEF Section
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-f
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-d
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_URI} !^/index.php
RewriteRule ^/forum/ forum/index.php [L]
########## End - RokBridge - phpBB3 edition SEF Section
what i dont get is, it was working "ok" a few days ago, and then suddenly blamo, they wont play, the fact it downloads the entire file first is a tad disconcerting, i lookd at the transfer stats and ive easyly used 100MB's in a single day.